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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 29.06.2025 06:51

How does one succeed in life?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

That's it for today.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why didn't my ex fight for our relationship? He gave up so easily.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.